MQRegan is offline MQRegan Post #11  October 30,2009, 5:29pm
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The same thing happened to me once. I used a nudge to get a match to start stage 3. I was fairly sure she didn't realize it was her turn to go first. But when I started OC and she didn't reply for several more days, I closed. Think about it, would you really want the aggravation of someone who is apparently so unreliable and/or clueless?

There goes Melman again with all of his positive reenforcement. He's like the little red devil on your shoulder. I don't think I ever seen a positive or at least neutral statement from you. Are you like the default devil's advocate for the board?

Alissa makes good sense. We're in e-mail communication now, maybe she had something going on. Still strangers.
 
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Hey, I'm not the one who's worrying about losing matches, and whether or not she's interested, and whether or not I look desperate.

All of which are signs that eH has gotten into your brain and is messing with your self-confidence. (We've all been there.) Believe me, your matches will pick up on this like a piece of food stuck in your teeth. You can't see it, but it will be totally obvious to them.

Don't take this so seriously. Your self-confidence will thank you. (And you can thank me later.)
 
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We shall see. I'm quite the opposite offline.
 
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