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Yep this is a numbers game! I enrolled for a year in Jan 2008 and finally met someone that September. I was still with her in January 2009 so I let my membership run out. We broke up in Feb 2009 so back I came.

Since than, lots of message, few responses. I am now finally in OC with one and at stage 3 with another (who initiated with me, only the second time a woman has started with me!).

Be patient, it is tough but remember, probably 90% don't pay for this so they never get to reply!

Watch your action go up on the Free weekends though! Answer those as fast as you can and get to OC to exchange outside email addresses so you can keep talking!

Good luck to you!
- October 9th, 2009, 09:35 pm
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