Lets look at it from another point of view.

How much are you willing to spend, if you were guaranteed a date? Okay, how about if you were guaranteed a relationship, and then think about guaranteed marriage? Be honest with yourself. How much are these things worth to you?

Second, and this is important. How much is that $100.00 you spent worth to you? If you had that back, what would you do with it instead?

I ask these questions because people need to weigh how much this is worth to them? If they want a quality mate, but they're not willing to put in the time and energy and, unfortunately, resources, to find it, whats the point?

My point is this. If the $100.00 is life and death for you. Break the bank kind of money, then no, you should not have spent it here because this site is not a sure thing. None of these dating sites are. One should approach EH and any other dating site with a huge grain of salt. If the money you are spending is not worth it to you, then dont' subscribe. Spend your money elsewhere. But if you can afford this site, or another site, and you're not really meeting anyone, then give it a shot and see what happens. Worse case scenario, you are in the same position you are at, down a little money, but we've already decided you can afford it, so its not a big deal. But if you did meet someone, you're better off than if you didn't spend the money.

You just don't know. This is an avenue to meet people. That is all. Too many people get upset because they're not getting the perfect match that wants them as soon as they subscribe.