Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #1  September 24,2009, 5:06am
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I have posted about this situation in the past (a long time ago).

A few days ago I turned matching off. The reason was that I was in communication with several matches and have over 100 in my New folder that I have not been able to get to yet. I wanted to catch up some. I used to have at least a couple of matches viewing me everyday. There would be some sort of activity from one or more matches most everyday.

Since I have turned off matching I have had no matches view my profile (and no they are not viewing anonymously) and I have had no communication from any of the matches that were communicating with me.

Has anyone else notice this when you turn matching off?
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
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Since I have turned off matching I have had no matches view my profile (and no they are not viewing anonymously) and I have had no communication from any of the matches that were communicating with me.

Has anyone else notice this when you turn matching off?
I've had the first issue you mention when I've turned matching off in the past. I think it might be similar to when you close a match wherein even if they have viewed you or view you, it does not show up to you as a view.
 
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tweet37 is offline tweet37 Post #3  September 24,2009, 7:30am
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I think it's just a coincidence. I don't know why turning off the matching should affect anything else but again, the way this site's been buggy you never know. Maybe one of the mods can do a test and chime in here.
 
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I had that happen, too--though I all the matches I'd been communicating with through the system had either poofed, or never replied, prior to my turning off matches. But no new communications from others and no profile views since I turned off matching.

(Which, yes, I've done, despite advice from people on these boards to do otherwise.)
 
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Dear Gr8Guyn2008,

That is certainly odd, but turning the service matching off does not affect your current matches'ability to view your profile or communicate with you.

However, since you mentioned that you posted about this before, you may want to e-mail Customer Care from our Help link and ask that our Technical department take a look at your account.

As always, make sure you get an incident number to confirm that your e-mail was successfully sent.

All the best,

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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
I have posted about this situation in the past (a long time ago).

A few days ago I turned matching off. The reason was that I was in communication with several matches and have over 100 in my New folder that I have not been able to get to yet. I wanted to catch up some. I used to have at least a couple of matches viewing me everyday. There would be some sort of activity from one or more matches most everyday.

Since I have turned off matching I have had no matches view my profile (and no they are not viewing anonymously) and I have had no communication from any of the matches that were communicating with me.

Has anyone else notice this when you turn matching off?
I do this as well.

I still do get responses from my existing Matches, so I think its just coincidence in this case.
 
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