sevenofnine is offline sevenofnine Post #1  September 14,2009, 2:57am
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Can I reopen a match if I closed it by accident?
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #2  September 14,2009, 6:30pm
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If your match has not closed the match also then if you go to your Closed folder and look for that match you should see a Re-Open button. If your match has sent you a Final Message then you should also see a Re-Open button.

If the match is permanently closed you can contact eHarmony customer support and request the match be re-opened. They will then send the match an e-mail that you would like to re-open the match. If they agree then eHarmony will re-open the match. However, if the match declines to re-open you are just out of luck.
 
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I did this with 2 matches, however the results were a bit disappointing. One replied to closing meesge with good luck to your search, I reopened her, but for 3 months she did not move past the point where we stopped the first time,so I had to close her again.
The other one, more recent reopened me and wrote some reasons to why she closed me, and afterwards closed me selecting 4 different reasons. Go figure it. Indeed turned out like openning a pandora's box, she acted out of malice in opening the match, for she was exercising her curiosity, and when she saw what was let out of it -the hope, she quickly closed it.
 
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