Why do men not close matches if not interested?


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parakeetjordan is offline parakeetjordan Post #1  August 22,2009, 6:12pm
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Why do men not close their match with me if they are not interested?
 
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Same reason that you women don't!
 
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I close all matches that I definitely do not intend to act upon.
 
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I am not checking the matches that much the last week, you wouln't be either if you had a Bosch KE Jetronic electro-mechanical fuel injection that gave you trouble.

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I close all matches that I definitely do not intend to act upon.
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I have no issues closing, BAM, closed.
 
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I would imagine one of two reasons: They are no paying members or they hope you take the hint.
 
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Why do men not close their match with me if they are not interested?
...because they may deem you as "optional." If girl A doesn't work out, girl B (you) is an alternative.
 
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I can relate, I have noticed the same thing on the flip side. I figure that's just the way it is, some people are very straight forward and decisive but not everyone. My only advice would be to continue to communicate the way you want others to communicate with you. GL
 
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I'm too lazy to have to archive someone and then go into my archives to close you as well. It's too much trouble.
 
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