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I would really appreciate your feedback. I am just learning the ins and outs of online dating! One thing I have just learned from reading some posts is that icebreakers are a clue you're not a paying member! I had no idea, I hope that's why I haven't gotten any responses! lol!
Thanks in advance for your suggestions!

Diane



1. What are you most passionate about?

2. What are the THREE things for which you are MOST thankful?
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3. Other than your parents, who has been the most influential person in your life and why?
4. The four things your friends say about you are: Edit
  • Caring
  • Easy-Going
  • Thoughtful
  • Optimistic
  • 5. What are three of your BEST life-skills? Edit
  • Cooking for my family and friends
  • Earning income to provide for my family
  • Raising and/or caring for children
  • 6. What is the most important quality that you are looking for in another person?
    7. Other than your appearance, what is the first thing that people notice about you?
    8. What is the ONE thing that people DON'T notice about you right away that you WISH they WOULD?
    9. How do you typically spend your leisure time?
    10. What are five things that you "can't live without?"
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    d.
    e.
    11. Describe the last book that you read and enjoyed. What was it about? What did you like most about it?
    12. Describe one thing about yourself that only your best friends know.
    13. Is there any additional information you would like your matches to know about you?
    - August 21st, 2009, 10:31 am
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    Nicely written profile. You sound like a nice woman. two things:
    Please make room for someone in your life!
    There is a bit over mentioning of family, family family, kids, kids kids. Are they going in all the dates too?

    Please be who you are today....not the work in progress theme..way too many women write this, why?
    We do not want to date your future you, mind, body or life, do we?
    Do want a man who will "someday get a job and be someone."..

    In summary be who YOU are NOW, not who your important people are and who you will be, that's hiding yourself and very easy to pick up.
    - August 21st, 2009, 01:41 pm
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    Wiseman2,

    Thank you so much for your helpful and constructive criticism, I will make those changes!

    Also, thanks for the compliment!

    Diane
    - August 21st, 2009, 01:53 pm
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