TheThinker is offline TheThinker Post #1  August 16,2009, 11:02am
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I had someone send me a "Fast Track" request the other day...
I am interested in this match.

Now, I'm generally opposed to Fast track unless I see tons of information about that person...I'd much rather use the GC approach and see where it goes.
So, I hit the "I rather use GC..." button and then waited to see if she'd respond.
(As you may know, she has to respond before I can contact her again.)

Soooo yesterday, I'd found that she closed me out with: "This person never responded to my request to communicate" option, which, was untrue, of course.
Huh??
So then I thought, is it possible this a software glitch in EH's system?

Has this happened to anyone else? or, does this sound like a way someone would close you out?
Is this the way you'd respond to my request?
Seems odd to me.

My only option was sending her was the " I wish you'd reconsider.." answer.

Dang, I wish there was an option to send people your email or something! Or a way I could have written, "hey! there's been a mistake!"

My gut feeling is that she never received my GC request, so she closed me out...

Has this ever happened to anyone else?
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There could be a glitch in eHarmony's system but I would say that the glitch is between you and her.

She requested Fast Track, you declined. I am not familiar with what message eHarmony sends to the person when a Fast Track Request has been declined but it may be just that Fast Track has been declined which she would have taken as a rejection to communicate.

You can contact eHarmony customer support and see what suggestions they have. They can send a request to her to re-open but I don't know if they can customize that message for you.

Another way to look at this is that she is not flexible in how she wants to communicate and of course you don't seem to be particularly flexible in how you want to communicate so the two of you just may not be very compatible.
 
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