one week has gone by...is he no longer interested?


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I had a flexible match with whom I have reached the open communication stage within a week and a half after I initiated communication. He was always quick to respond, and the longest he has gone without sending a response was about a day. So, I sent him an 'open' message, and he replied, then I sent another message, but it has been a week since then and I haven't heard a peep from him since. Could he just be busy in his personal life that he doesn't have the time to even drop me a line to say that he is busy, or that he will reply later? Or could it be that he got turned off by my open message and no longer wishes to contact me? And if it is the latter, why has he not even bothered to close the match on me?

I've spoken to several friends about this and they have asked me to just wait...if after two weeks he still hasn't written back, they suggested that I contact him one last time. But I am on the verge of either just closing the match or sending him another message to find out what is going on...please help...I don't know where to go from here.

If anyone can provide an insight into this I would really appreciate it.
 
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