slc87558 is offline slc87558 Post #1  August 6,2009, 3:19pm
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I recently sent one of my matches an Icebreaker, he responded, but then there was nothing after that. And I see no other way to contact him now. He wanted to continue contact, but it seems we're stuck. Help! I'd like to get to know him more, but can't find out how!
 
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Just press that button that says start communicating. It won't hurt! Give it a try. It's only a button! If you don't hear from him again, then move on. He may not be a paying member or he isn't interested. Don't get too hung up on one profile. You will get another tomorrow and many more in the weeks to come.
 
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I recently sent one of my matches an Icebreaker, he responded, but then there was nothing after that. And I see no other way to contact him now. He wanted to continue contact, but it seems we're stuck. Help! I'd like to get to know him more, but can't find out how!
If you are a paying member never send IceBreakers. An IceBreaker is the only communication a non-paying member can do and so is viewed as an indication that the person is a non-paying member so there is no reason to even respond. If you are interested in a match then just send First Questions.

Of my matches that have sent me IceBreakers none have ever responded to my First Questions. If you can't or won't respond to my First Questions then why even bother sending an IceBreaker?
 
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