Girls who close me w/o communicating first


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MicMan is offline MicMan Post #31  April 5,2010, 4:50am
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I may of missed something here...but what is the point of being a non-paying member?
Is their only way of communcating, is if I send an email?

Am pretty new to this.
There are many, many people that have seen the commercials that tell you to sign up and review your matches for free. There are some that take that to the paying level, but there are many more that never do. It is pure speculation as to why they don't. Maybe they don't like the first matches they get? Maybe they were hoping the whole thing would be free? Maybe they're not serious about the process? You could go on and on.

The non-paying members can only communicate with an icebreaker and that option is quickly exhausted and really doesn't lead anywhere. They can also communicate during the Free Communication Weekends. They tend to coincide with holidays. I would guess the next one would be circa Memorial Day Weekend.
 
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I know several people who took the profile out of curiosity and/or boredom, to see who they'd be matched up with, and never intended to become paying members. One of those several people is the man I'm with now.
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