JM320 is offline JM320 Post #1  July 19,2009, 9:41am
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What can a person do to get eharmony to stop making your profile available after you terminate services? Your matches contact you, but you are unable respond unless you join again. Meanwhile your matches may become upset, feel rejected and hurt because you have not responded. I understand that this is a concerted effort to get you to rejoin.....but really, what about the emotional consequences for the subscribers?
 
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Go to "My Settings" and then to "Match Settings" then check "No, please do not send me any new matches until I say otherwise."

That should stop the new matches from coming in.

As for the matches that have already been delivered, I don't think you can do anything about it except wait for a free communication weekend and close them.
 
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