What is a photo nudge? How can you tell if someone is a Non-paying member?


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stacy_a is offline stacy_a Post #1  July 14,2009, 5:51am
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I'm still learning how to navigate EH...I am pleased so far, but I feel like I don't really understand all of it...what is a photo nudge? And how does it work with non paying members? How can you tell if someone is a non-paying member? I thought if they don't have a photo that means that they are non-paid, is this assumption correct?
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A photo nudge is just a message that gets sent to the other person stating that there's an interest in seeing their picture. I can't recall if it actually tells you who sent the nudge to you or not.

Not all paying members post their photos, so not having a picture isn't really a good determination of they pay status. I think a better indicator is how complete their profile is. If there are a bunch of one word answers and skipped sections, that's probably not a paying member. If their profile is very detailed, but there is no picture, chances are they are just shy about their appearance for whatever reason.
 
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As a selfproclaimed expert. Coffeegeek is correct about the photo nudge. If you have a match that does not have a photo posted you can send a Photo Nudge by clicking on where their photo would be. Having always had photos posted I don't know what the message that is sent to your match says. I do know that if they do post a photo then you will get a message that says (name) has responded to your Photo Nudge.

As for telling who is a paying member and who isn't there are no sure fire way. Some clues to a paying member is a well filled out profile with photo and if they have RelyID and / or a Premium Personality Profile they are more likely to be paying members. If you have sent First Questions and they never have viewed your profile then they are likely to not be paying members.

The best thing you can do is to send First Questions to any of your matches that you find interesting and wait to see if they respond.
 
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