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What does it mean if next to one of your matches it says there's been a communication^--but the match hasn't nudged you, answered the questions you sent (still says "waiting for his answers") or requested a fast track and you didn't get an email from Eharmony? What other type of communication could it be? I think this person is a paying member, while I am not--but I'm not sure. Did they send me answers to my questions, but I can't see them because I'm not subscribed? Why does it say there's been a communication?

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- July 9th, 2009, 11:15 am
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It's effectively a "the person read your last communications on" time stamp.
- July 9th, 2009, 11:21 am
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Not sure why it is saying that there has been a communication. But if you are not a paying member you cannot see the communications from your matches. If you had begun communicating with a match during last weekend's FCW then it could be that he has sent you something which you cannot see though you should get an e-mail that so and so has communicated.

I also think that if he has viewed your profile that will show up a a "communication".
- July 9th, 2009, 11:21 am
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If you sent them questions, even if they did not answer yet, then it will show up as "communication."
- July 9th, 2009, 11:34 am
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Thanks guys, I appreciate your responses.

DDR said it means they viewed my last communication,

Guyn2008 said either he sent me a communication I can't see or he viewed my profile, and

Lookin4Love said it was the result of sending him questions previously.

So which one is it? ^_^

Further info: The "Last communication" was there when I checked my profile today, it wasn't there before.

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- July 9th, 2009, 06:21 pm
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Also, the last time we "communicated" was over a month ago. He sent me questions, I answered them and sent him questions a month ago.
- July 9th, 2009, 06:24 pm
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