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This doesn't bother me in the least. I know plenty of women out there who could take it or leave it when it comes to sex -- I am not one of those women.

The only time I could imagine this being a red flag is if it was coupled with other sex-related MCHSs or comments -- then it might get me to thinking that was all he was after.
- July 4th, 2009, 11:34 am
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Too many people jump to the wrong conclusion when the topic of sex is brought up during the communication process and for that reason I left it out. But I had plenty of women who had 'Must be knowledgeable....' or 'Must have sex regularly....'

Maybe those women who close you out because of that MH actually have issues themselves and it's best they close you out now than waste your time.
- July 4th, 2009, 11:46 am
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Okay, here's another question:

Are there any guys here that would be bothered to see those MHCS's coming from a woman?
- July 4th, 2009, 12:03 pm
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I would love to see those MHCS from a woman.

You know I'm going to take the darn thing off my list. I was thinking that on a few occasions I've had women not close me out but stop communicating after they receive my MHCS. I just close them out and move on...no big deal and maybe that's why I forgot about them.

Almost all my matches have had the MH about passion..."with compassion and understanding" which to me is like them saying, hey I don't want to do anything wierd or toys or whatever. That's just my opinion.

Thought about a mid-40's attorney I dated for a year through eH. She wouldn't go on a four day trip with me to Cancun because she was afraid I'd want to have sex 2-3 times a day and she said it wears her out too much. Now that hurt and was the end of our relationship.

So, I'll take it out. I just didn't realize as was commented here that it brings up a woman's "creep" antenna just by virtue of meeting someone thorugh the internet and having to be extra careful.
- July 4th, 2009, 05:17 pm
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