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"Other" may have a different meaning. One of my closiest friends lists other as she has more money than God and does not have to work at the ripe old as of 43. How do you like that one? She does not tell the man she dates up front about "all her money".
- July 2nd, 2009, 11:28 am
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islandrain80 wrote :
It's in regards to working in surveillance in a casino. If there was a casino choice, that'd work.
Oh, OK. How about "entertainment security"?
- July 2nd, 2009, 11:42 am
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
Oh, OK. How about "entertainment security"?
Lol, first thought after reading that...security for "entertainers" i.e strippers and such!
- July 2nd, 2009, 11:47 am
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islandrain80 wrote :
Lol, first thought after reading that...security for "entertainers" i.e strippers and such!
You could be a CHEATER SKEETER!
- July 2nd, 2009, 12:54 pm
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
I am contemplating it. Since there is no photo and nothing in the profile I figure she is a non-paying and non-active member. Of course it costs nothing to send First Questions and it may be good for a laugh.
NON-PAYER!
- July 2nd, 2009, 01:00 pm
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
Oh, OK. How about "entertainment security"?
Eha boards moderator?
- July 2nd, 2009, 02:01 pm
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islandrain80 wrote :
Lol, first thought after reading that...security for "entertainers" i.e strippers and such!
Yeah, you kind of have to watch that. Some places (like parts of SoCal and here in Vegas) "the entertainment industry" has a whole 'nother meaning than in other parts of the country.
- July 2nd, 2009, 02:09 pm
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When i was on EH, I first put my occupation as "I sue people". Then I thought it was a little ominous and my humor wasn't getting through, so i backed it off to "Legal stuff", then i realized that legal stuff may imply i do "illegal stuff", so I finally broke down and just put paralegal.
- July 2nd, 2009, 03:11 pm
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Wow...I feel kind of bad for my mom and people like her. If they were to lose their husbands to illness or divorce, no men would want to date them because they don't have a career or a job?

Many older women have never worked, though they rasied children and took care of their homes. So when they are older and have no career skills they are just throw-aways?

I'm sure many of those women still have a lot to offer the right guy. I guess she is not worthy unless she has a job?

Anyway, I am currently talking to an unemployed pilot. The only thing that bugged me, was that when I first saw his profile, it said that he was an unemployed pilot (I liked that..honest). The second time I saw it, and after he contacted me....he had changed it to just "pilot" and added a picture of him at his apparently former job.

After two emails with me, he confided that he was unemployed. I of course, already knew but did not allude to that, and told him it was nothing to be ashamed of due to the economy.

Of course, my view of him is that he is probably insecure and thinks women will not talk to him if he is honest at first about his status, and he ties his own worthiness up with his career.

What else does he lie about?
- July 2nd, 2009, 04:15 pm
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haha!!! if I saw a guy that said he did nothing as an occupation I would close no matter how hot he was
- July 2nd, 2009, 07:07 pm
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