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pamcam is offline pamcam Post #21  July 21,2010, 7:45am
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I first joined almost two years ago for 6 months. Then, hardly anyone viewed my profile. I didn't renew and I asked not to receive any matches, or have my profile sent to anyone. I renewed last month; this time around, most everyone I'm matched w/ does view my profile; what the difference is this time I don't know.
 
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saratoga1 is offline saratoga1 Post #22  July 21,2010, 8:23am
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They probabaly have not responded because most men need a viual attraction,not saying a #10 but something that appeals to them.
 
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lookin4lovexo wrote :
So the day we sign up we do not get matched up with all of our matches? Every day they send us a couple more, some of which are old members(that were saved and not matched with us right away)? If this is the case, that is really bad on Eharmony's part.
Reminds me of the movie Glengarry Glen Ross. "These leads are weak"
 
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pammersw is offline pammersw Post #24  July 21,2010, 5:25pm
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Several comments here.

1) Yeah, no sure way to tell who is active and paid...unless they are communicating with you on a day that's not a "free communication" weekend! That's the way it's been forever and it's frustrating but that is the way it is.

2) A guy here stated something to the effect that he'd had x number of matches and assumed his matches had received an equal number..."so it goes both ways".

Well, it varies by age group! About six years ago, a local match and I compared numbers. In our age group, apparently there are about three or four times as many women on eH as men. In younger age groups, it's apparently more even.

3) OP - unless there is something in the pictures or profiles that are a definite "no-go", go ahead and initiate communication with all of your matches. You'll probably get about a 10% response rate at best, and you get more people talking to you if you invite them to talk. If nothing else, you'll stand out among the guy's matches simply by the fact that you sent a message. That will show him that *you*, at least, are a paying member who is able to communicate!
 
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