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Well, today is my last day on eH. I'd like to say it's been fun, but that would be a lie. I've let all of my matches in OC know and sent them my email (or at least the ones where it looks like there might be some interest on their part), so hopefully I'll hear from them (not going to hold my breath though). Anyway, just wanted to thank everyone on the eHA board for their advice, support, and listening to my occasional vent.
 
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tweet37 is offline tweet37 Post #2  June 11,2009, 6:02am
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Dude,

You can still stick around here on these discussion boards without being a member of eH dating. Maybe you'll meet someone here. It happens.

See you around campus.
 
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Dude,

You can still stick around here on these discussion boards without being a member of eH dating. Maybe you'll meet someone here. It happens.

See you around campus.
Actually it happens frequently
 
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My sub expires next week. I'll consider renewing in 6 months. The most enjoyable part of my eh experience has been the wisdom, insight, humor, and at times gasping straight up stupidity in the posts. I luv the boards and enjoy the people, as each has so much to offer.
 
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cfibl wrote :
Well, today is my last day on eH. I'd like to say it's been fun, but that would be a lie. I've let all of my matches in OC know and sent them my email (or at least the ones where it looks like there might be some interest on their part), so hopefully I'll hear from them (not going to hold my breath though). Anyway, just wanted to thank everyone on the eHA board for their advice, support, and listening to my occasional vent.
The tone of your post is one of disappointment and disgust. Yet it seems from what you have said in this post that you have had some success, probably more that many.
 
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My sub expires next week. I'll consider renewing in 6 months. The most enjoyable part of my eh experience has been the wisdom, insight, humor, and at times gasping straight up stupidity in the posts. I luv the boards and enjoy the people, as each has so much to offer.
Thank you
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
The tone of your post is one of disappointment and disgust. Yet it seems from what you have said in this post that you have had some success, probably more that many.
Disappointed yes, disgusted no. Maybe I should change the wording around?
 
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tweet37 wrote :
Dude,

You can still stick around here on these discussion boards without being a member of eH dating. Maybe you'll meet someone here. It happens.

See you around campus.
Yeah I know, and I'll probably stick around on the boards. Just need a nice long break from the whole online thing b/c I'm pretty burnt out.
 
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Cfibl,

I’m really sorry to hear that you’re leaving eHarmony feeling that it was less than fun. I hope at the very least that you gleaned something valuable from it. Even more, I hope that your experience will have proven fruitful in the long run. As Gr8guyn2008 said, it sounds like you did pretty well and have some possibilities.

I echo the “hope you stay here’s”! It’s fun and we have seen quite a few friendships here develop into more…

See you around the boards,

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cfibl is offline cfibl Post #10  June 11,2009, 5:47pm
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Cfibl,

I’m really sorry to hear that you’re leaving eHarmony feeling that it was less than fun. I hope at the very least that you gleaned something valuable from it. Even more, I hope that your experience will have proven fruitful in the long run. As Gr8guyn2008 said, it sounds like you did pretty well and have some possibilities.

I echo the “hope you stay here’s”! It’s fun and we have seen quite a few friendships here develop into more…

See you around the boards,

~Kate
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Guess it depends on your definition of success. If getting into OC and then having your match quit responding, close you, or flake out on you is considered successful then I guess I was b/c that's happened to me I don't know how many times. I'd consider starting a relationship or at least meeting several matches out in the real world as being successful, which I haven't been at all.

Anyway, thanks for the invite, and I'll probably hang out on the boards some.
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