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pussinboots is offline pussinboots Post #1  June 5,2009, 5:54pm
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I know there are some out there who would like to add a humorous reason, but I am looking for serious reasons [also].

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You never viewed my profile
Your profile is too incomplete

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I am taking a break from dating [yeah, right, you're paying for this service and have still left matching on]
I have too many things happening in my life at the moment [same reason as previous]
I would rather not say [that's just hurtful]
Because I was put on hold [hold option no longer available]
Because we are communicating outside of eHarmony [there have been times in OC when although we were communicating through personal email, on occasion I could only access the internet, but not my email, so why bother closing for that reason]
 
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Bravo to "your profile is too incomplete". That could get the other person to . . . perhaps . . . actually finish it lol.

However, I think we need to keep "communicating outside of eharmony". I had used that maybe four or five times for men that I actually got to DATE but then it didn't work out. To move those people to closed - what other good choice would there be if that wasn't there?
 
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It was suggested to me by neardc in another thread I started recently to write something - just anything - to get this thread noticed again. Hope it works.

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pussinboots wrote :
I know there are some out there who would like to add a humorous reason, but I am looking for serious reasons [also].

Add:

You never viewed my profile
Your profile is too incomplete

Delete:

I am taking a break from dating [yeah, right, you're paying for this service and have still left matching on]
I have too many things happening in my life at the moment [same reason as previous]
I would rather not say [that's just hurtful]
Because I was put on hold [hold option no longer available]
Because we are communicating outside of eHarmony [there have been times in OC when although we were communicating through personal email, on occasion I could only access the internet, but not my email, so why bother closing for that reason]
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wishamee is offline wishamee Post #5  June 21,2009, 7:44pm
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Add: This flexible match is not what I am looking for.
 
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pussinboots is offline pussinboots Post #6  June 22,2009, 5:53am
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wishamee wrote :
Add: This flexible match is not what I am looking for.
I am curious. What do you mean by flexible? Do you mean the match is not specific enough in what [s]he is looking for?
 
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pussinboots wrote :
I know there are some out there who would like to add a humorous reason, but I am looking for serious reasons [also].

Add:

You never viewed my profile
Your profile is too incomplete

Delete:

I am taking a break from dating [yeah, right, you're paying for this service and have still left matching on]
I have too many things happening in my life at the moment [same reason as previous]
I would rather not say [that's just hurtful]
Because I was put on hold [hold option no longer available]
Because we are communicating outside of eHarmony [there have been times in OC when although we were communicating through personal email, on occasion I could only access the internet, but not my email, so why bother closing for that reason]
I used this one when matches poofed on me. Maybe it should be replaced with something like "Because this match stopped responding to my communication".

Agree on rather not say. One time I was closed for rather not say, lack of chemistry, distance, and other. I was like what a complete an utter b****, and she was nowhere near being a supermodel either so don't know where her sense of entitlement came from.
 
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wishamee is offline wishamee Post #8  June 22,2009, 7:16am
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pussinboots wrote :
I am curious. What do you mean by flexible? Do you mean the match is not specific enough in what [s]he is looking for?


The Flexible Matching is made by Eharmony (paid subscription) when they think you are a good possible match but the match being offered by eharmony deviates a lot from your preferences. Here are some examples: you might get matched with someone who is a lot older or younger than your preferences, someone whose alcohol consumption is quite a bit different. Sometimes their deviations from your preferences plus something else might just be a turn off.
 
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pussinboots wrote :
I know there are some out there who would like to add a humorous reason, but I am looking for serious reasons [also].

Add:

You never viewed my profile
Your profile is too incomplete

Delete:

I am taking a break from dating [yeah, right, you're paying for this service and have still left matching on]
I have too many things happening in my life at the moment [same reason as previous]
I would rather not say [that's just hurtful]
Because I was put on hold [hold option no longer available]
Because we are communicating outside of eHarmony [there have been times in OC when although we were communicating through personal email, on occasion I could only access the internet, but not my email, so why bother closing for that reason]
I used those two when I was clearing out my inbox prior to turning matching off and taking a break / cancelling my subscription, rather than simply poofing.
 
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Agree, some of them no longer apply(on hold), which was an absurd option to begin with. Other and rather not say are also meaningless. The no picture and based on statements in their profile ones are relevant and honest, as are pursuing other relationship and never responded. The close reasons should remain diplomatic, there is no reason to flame or be cruel, however ,I think EH should have a "flag/report this profile" button, if the profile is obscene, inappropriate, or just completely bizzare.
pussinboots wrote :
It was suggested to me by neardc in another thread I started recently to write something - just anything - to get this thread noticed again. Hope it works.

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