Hurricane_Em is offline Hurricane_Em Post #1  May 25,2009, 12:22pm
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Hey all--

I'm trying to figure out something and am not having luck w/ researching the specifics, so sorry if this is redundant or clueless sounding!!

On the free weekends, can non-paying members post pics? I've heard if no pics-non-paying member. But if it's free, then can everyone post and see photos?

I'm trying to figure this out, obviously, because I'm to OC with a guy from this weekend and normally don't throw out my email addy but if he's potentially not a paying member, I may. I also noticed one really cool-sounding guy re-appeared and reviewed my profile again so I'm hoping he will respond as well, if he only does the free weekends. That said, I'm not going to get my hopes up on anything LOL--I just want to work the system to my advantage.
 
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neardc is offline neardc Post #2  May 25,2009, 12:34pm
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Non-paying members can (and should) post pics as part of completing their profiles. However, only paying members can see the pics that others have posted in their profiles.

You cannot tell if someone is a paying/non-paying member from whether they have a pic posted, but those without pics are more likely to be non-paying.
 
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Hurricane_Em is offline Hurricane_Em Post #3  May 25,2009, 1:02pm
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So, let me get this straight--I can see his photos, since I'm a paying member, but he can't see mine, if he's non-paying?

I am so paranoid, LOL. Not really, but I still wonder--like most women--if I'm pretty 'enough' or whatever. And sometimes insecure about it--I admit, even though I really try not to be.
 
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Ok guys/girls.I was a free weekend trial person and I actually had good luck. I met a guy I really liked and dated him for a couple months until I ended it with him bc of something he did. Anyways we don't do the free trial to tease anyone or anything. We really want to meet someone special to but we want to try it out to see if it's worth all that money. When I did it I replied to everyone very promptly and told them I wan't a pay member yet but then I gave them my e-mail address so they could continue talking to me after the trial ended. I decided not to join bc it was like 70/30. Some guys fit me and what I like and others were WAY off from my type. I had my distance thing set to within 30 miles and got matched with 2 people from out of state. So why would I want do join if 70 % of my matches didn't interest me in the least and some lived in another state. That's not very good matching if you ask me. It also takes so long to get to the open communication part and free trials can't do fast track. I look of the guys on myspace or ask them to e-mail me a pic b4 I commit to meeting them or anything. Yeah that sucks to I can't see anyones pics. I like this site though the info thing.
 
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