jhl31 is offline jhl31 Post #1  May 16,2009, 4:57am
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I've only been on eHarmony for a little over a month now. During most of that time, I've been emailing someone daily. Our emails are fairly long and involved. We've also gone out a couple of time too. However, it feels like we've been together for a much longer time. I've never known someone so well yet have actually seen her so little. I have to admit my feelings are getting rather strong, but I keep on reminding myself that we've actually seen each other only a few times. It's a little too soon to feel that way. I'm wondering if this is typical of meeting someone on eHarmony. Especially for the more experienced people on eHarmony, do you feel that process we go through on eHarmony tends to move things along faster?
 
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mkucsera is offline mkucsera Post #2  May 16,2009, 4:04pm
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Take it slow and have a good time. Enjoy what you have for as long as you have it. That's my advice, but that goes for all relationships not just ones made through eh. Good luck!
 
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Your description sounds like you have both good chemistry online and in person. This is a good thing to explore and see what develops.

Just take it at a pace that fits you both and enjoy. Matches that "feel" like that are more on the rare side as many are one date type deals. Think about your other dates...do you experience this feeling most of the time?

Good chemistry and a good match are hard to find. However it certainly is a good foundation to see if you have something that would go the distance.

Personally I think the level of chemistry varies by the match as well as the timing. Sometimes you just meet good people at the wrong time for you or them. Your case sounds like you are on the same page so far.
 
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Blackadder is offline Blackadder Post #4  May 16,2009, 8:36pm
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I agree. It sounds like you got matched with the right person at the right time. For only a month on here that is remarkable. I have four months on and have yet to get any kind of communication started with any of my matches.

Is your situation typicle of the eharmony experience? I wish.

Is it moving too fast? Do you think it is? Ask your match how they feel. Be honest. Be yourself. Don't force it, do what feels natural.

Have fun.
 
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JoJoBean is offline JoJoBean Post #5  May 17,2009, 9:42am
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I am glad you have a good match, I think the long e-mails and phone calls create a great way to really get to know someone. It allows you to be yourself with out fear.
 
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jhl31 wrote :
I've only been on eHarmony for a little over a month now. During most of that time, I've been emailing someone daily. Our emails are fairly long and involved. We've also gone out a couple of time too. However, it feels like we've been together for a much longer time. I've never known someone so well yet have actually seen her so little. I have to admit my feelings are getting rather strong, but I keep on reminding myself that we've actually seen each other only a few times. It's a little too soon to feel that way. I'm wondering if this is typical of meeting someone on eHarmony. Especially for the more experienced people on eHarmony, do you feel that process we go through on eHarmony tends to move things along faster?
If your comfortable with it, meet. Its only way to know if its real. Best Wishes
 
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