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SMRTRTHNU wrote :
Who? Meeeeeeeee????
No, I was referring to the person that started the thread.
- June 22nd, 2009, 03:27 pm
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grumbunny wrote :
Ever wish your matches were uglier?
That has to be the most-unexpected question ever!! If you think your matches are all attractive, just roll with it! See if you have a lot in common and see if there is a viable chance that the two of you can coexist and be partners.
- July 21st, 2009, 11:42 pm
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When you first register, I remeber there is one or two lines in the initial questionnaire asking you (girl) if you see yourself attractive and make a relevance bar for matching at the nearby space.

But I maybe incorrect.

And, after you complete the questionnaire, you cannot access to those answers, even the additional question on which school/ university you graduate!
- September 11th, 2009, 11:17 am
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you should always look at their pics.
- September 11th, 2009, 11:41 am
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I agree with Scarlet13, I notice a tiny hint of insecurity there. I would give the same advice for matches you considered not to be your type. Notice I didn't say ugly because beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But, look at their profile and read what they have to say first before just discounting them as being too pretty.

I also sense a bit of pre-judgment here. You are assuming something may be lacking in this "pretty" match or lets be honest, that possibly they will reject you for not being "pretty" enough. Give men a chance, I am dating a very handsome guy now who I really connect with. Now, had I just said he's too attractive and kept going I would have really missed out on a charming, smart, funny man.

We take this thing wayyyyy to seriously sometimes and I don't profess to be anymore insightful than anyone else out here as I, too face my insecurities about dating. But, I must admit going through these posts and replying is really helping me through my issues. So, thanks, but give those "pretty" men a chance, you may strike gold.
- November 19th, 2009, 10:09 am
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