DianaInHouston is offline DianaInHouston Post #21  April 25,2008, 12:41pm
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has a SECOND new ring from Motorcycle Boy!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Think she feels very strongly about that statement?
 
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DianaInHouston is offline DianaInHouston Post #22  April 25,2008, 12:47pm
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themeindzeye,89513 wrote :

They've also got black helicopters set on whisper mode that follow you down the street at night and monitor your every move! *gasp!*

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You saw them too?? I thought it was just me! They are there to listen to your phone conversations, you know! And don't do anything on a first date that you don't want to berecorded and putonline!! Those guys are SLICK!
 
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DianaInHouston,89623 wrote :
themeindzeye,89513 wrote :

They've also got black helicopters set on whisper mode that follow you down the street at night and monitor your every move! *gasp!*

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You saw them too?? I thought it was just me! They are there to listen to your phone conversations, you know! And don't do anything on a first date that you don't want to berecorded and putonline!! Those guys are SLICK!
Definitely. Every burnt-out streetlight has a camera in it! Those guys've been following you for the last three blocks and they're -not- just going to the same destination!

*lmao* I have to apologize, I am feeling Overwhelmingly Silly today. I saw a bat in the parking garage right above my car to start my day out and he was CUTE! Best Beginning of Day EvAr!!1!!!!1!1!!!!!!!one!!!!1!!!!
 
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themeindzeye,89628 wrote :
I saw a bat in the parking garage right above my car to start my day out and he was CUTE! Best Beginning of Day EvAr!!1!!!!1!1!!!!!!!one!!!!1!!!!
If I was you I'd be careful going out to your car after dark without garlic and a crucifix. A girl can never be too careful about her security.
 
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Tinderbox,89687 wrote :
themeindzeye,89628 wrote :
I saw a bat in the parking garage right above my car to start my day out and he was CUTE! Best Beginning of Day EvAr!!1!!!!1!1!!!!!!!one!!!!1!!!!
If I was you I'd be careful going out to your car after dark without garlic and a crucifix. A girl can never be too careful about her security.
Well, if it -is- a vampire, and he's that cute as a bat...

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technokat is offline technokat Post #26  April 25,2008, 4:00pm
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Maybe it's just that the person does not care for the personality that comes through when you go to OC. I had a match that was awesome on paper...nice profile, scant, but positive and upbeat. He was attractive. And I went through the process with him. His MC/CS hinted that he was a bit eager to find "a" match, not necessarily any one in particular. But then he wrote to me, and came off as someone I would not want to be with.

Another match seemed brilliantly wonderful. Profile was interesting, MC/CS's were very thought-provoking, and his emails were extremely well-written and interesting. We got to the phone stage. He put me to sleep every time we talked.

So...the beginning process leaves a lot of mystery in its wake. If you're having such bad luck, perhaps there is some message you are inadvertently giving in your profile and all its parts. As far as it being a scam, well...most dating sites are built on the premise that people want to believe they can find true love with a little help. These sites serve many purposes to many people. It's like a religion, if you have faith and you believe, you MIGHT be saved. But for those who keep trying and never catch a glimpse of salvation, life is viewed through the eyes of a cynic.
 
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Hello All,

I think some people are never satisfied. IfEH only sentsubscibers profile from paying members andnot non-paying members or profiles which specify a match is a non-paying member,the number of matches received would be low. Then the "scam" accusations would be even louder. I don't know why people who subscribe to dating sites think meeting a person is some kind of "magical process". It is a group of people gathered together and matched as close as possible according to certain traits. There is aSTRONG possibility thata percentage of this group (subscribers) do not match the needs and wants of other subscribers.

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I would say that eharmony is more in the loneliness business than the coupling business, The "advice columns" have, in my opinion,the effect of making men and women alike more insecure about where they stand with the opposite sex. Women are given the impression that they can have it all with men - that they can be wined and dined by any number of suitable "suitors". Men are treated as irrelevant. Of course, neither of these scenarios meets the reality check. Men would be advised to go to look up Marc Rudov.
 
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realman5,89794 wrote :
I would say that eharmony is more in the loneliness business than the coupling business, The "advice columns" have, in my opinion, the effect of making men and women alike more insecure about where they stand with the opposite sex. Women are given the impression that they can have it all with men - that they can be wined and dined by any number of suitable "suitors". Men are treated as irrelevant. Of course, neither of these scenarios meets the reality check. Men would be advised to go to look up Marc Rudov.
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