Colton020 is offline Colton020 Post #1  December 7,2007, 1:49am
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eHarmony sounds like a great tool to meet a person that matches your personality, but my parents met by randomness and have been married for 20+ years. And I feel as if I am cheating the system or removing the excitement of asking a person you know from work or class out to eat. So do you think eHarmony is a easy way out from asking a person out and trying to go through the process of trial and error. My goal is to look for that one person I can have fun with.
 
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in my opinion, you can never know everything about a person, including yourself, because we as humans are constantly growing and changing. therefore, the intimacy and love that your parents have in their relationship is also attainable for you in yours, even if you use a process less conventional to meet that special someone. remember, all a dating service does is find people you may want to meet. the rest is all up to you and will be an adventure no matter how much you think you know. good-luck!
 
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speaking of meeting a person. i would like to meet someone who is honest, kind, passionate, nurturing, affectionate, who likes to walk in the rain without an umbrella, who likes to cuddle under the stars with someone special, wrapped up in a sleeping bag, who is creative or who will nurture my crative side, someone who is strong enough to share their vulnerabilities with me and trust that i won't abuse that trust, someone who makes me laugh, someone i can love and who will not be afraid to love me in return. someone to be there to share my achievements with. someone to just be themselves who will allow me to be...me!!! Is there anyone out there like that?????
sincearly, Lisa
 
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Remember on-line dating programs enable you to become aware of many more potential dates than just who may stumble upon in your daily life. You still have a lot of trial and error, especially sorting out facts from fiction in what you read on these sites. People who live in smaller towns may benefit from having a much larger pool of possible dates to consider. Just fasten your seat belt and hang on for the ride
 
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EHarmony is only one way to meet people; by all means ask that person from work or class out. I meet women both on eH and in "real life". I will say my Dad and stepmom met through the pre-internet version of "virtual" dating...a Christian singles newsletter. They've been happily together since 1984.
 
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