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HI


If a woman on EH responds to one of your questions..


The questions is How Romantic are you?


And the possible answers are


A)I love lots of romance, it is a necessity for me to feel loved
B)I am romantic, but do not require it
C)I am occasionally romantic
D)I don't consider myself a romantic person


She Chose D


How would you take that?


For me is a turnoffor does it have a different meaning?


- March 26th, 2009, 05:58 pm
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If her answer is aturn-off for YOU, then it simply is. Any other meaning it might have to someone else has no bearing, she's your match.


- March 26th, 2009, 06:04 pm
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Yes major turn off.





I'd seek clarification. Get her to define what romance is and how she reconciles her definition with emotion and love that are supposed to be in a relationship.
- March 26th, 2009, 06:04 pm
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"CLOSED" ..... based on past experience with a really non romantic person who had declared it very clearly.
- March 26th, 2009, 06:09 pm
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well, I can't speak for you, but if I got this from a guy, I'd close immediately. No questions, no clarification. No romance=no ME+you.
- March 26th, 2009, 06:11 pm
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lucky173 wrote :

If her answer is aturn-off for YOU, then it simply is. Any other meaning it might have to someone else has no bearing, she's your match.

ok So whow would you answer this? What if a guy asnswered like that to you? What would you think?
- March 26th, 2009, 06:11 pm
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It's not typically one of the questions I ask, but if I did, and he chose option D, I'd close him.


I've been with the non-romantic type guy before, and have learned it just doesn't mesh well with me in the least bit.


No romance is a no go.


- March 26th, 2009, 06:28 pm
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I've answered with option E...
- March 26th, 2009, 06:35 pm
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PY wrote :

I've answered with option E...
I usually answer every question with option E...


And I like it when my matches do, but that rarely happens
- March 26th, 2009, 06:40 pm
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Maybe it's her bait to see how you would react to that
- March 26th, 2009, 06:42 pm
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