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Italo2275 is offline Italo2275 Post #1  March 26,2009, 3:58pm
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HI


If a woman on EH responds to one of your questions..


The questions is How Romantic are you?


And the possible answers are


A)I love lots of romance, it is a necessity for me to feel loved
B)I am romantic, but do not require it
C)I am occasionally romantic
D)I don't consider myself a romantic person


She Chose D


How would you take that?


For me is a turnoffor does it have a different meaning?


 
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If her answer is aturn-off for YOU, then it simply is. Any other meaning it might have to someone else has no bearing, she's your match.


 
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Yes major turn off.





I'd seek clarification. Get her to define what romance is and how she reconciles her definition with emotion and love that are supposed to be in a relationship.
 
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"CLOSED" ..... based on past experience with a really non romantic person who had declared it very clearly.
 
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well, I can't speak for you, but if I got this from a guy, I'd close immediately. No questions, no clarification. No romance=no ME+you.
 
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If her answer is aturn-off for YOU, then it simply is. Any other meaning it might have to someone else has no bearing, she's your match.

ok So whow would you answer this? What if a guy asnswered like that to you? What would you think?
 
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It's not typically one of the questions I ask, but if I did, and he chose option D, I'd close him.


I've been with the non-romantic type guy before, and have learned it just doesn't mesh well with me in the least bit.


No romance is a no go.


 
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PY is offline PY Post #8  March 26,2009, 4:35pm

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I've answered with option E...
 
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lucky173 is offline lucky173 Post #9  March 26,2009, 4:40pm
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PY,550029 wrote :

I've answered with option E...
I usually answer every question with option E...


And I like it when my matches do, but that rarely happens
 
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Maybe it's her bait to see how you would react to that
 
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