kittycatz15 is offline kittycatz15 Post #1  March 14,2009, 1:38pm
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How come eHarmony does not post a member's most current log-in time? It would help me know if I'm being ignored or if he has just been too busy to sign in to his account. How do other people feel about this? How do I suggest this to eHarmony?
 
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I think it’s a great idea. I would actually like a lot more detail (length of membership and use history, like on ebay.) In fact, if I were to start on online dating company, one product I would experiment with is one in which all history would public to all members (who they communicated with.)


I think you direct your question to their customer service.


I doubt they would though, since many matches are non-paying, and the consensus seems to be to conceal that as much as possible.
 
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I sent in a suggestion for little buttons to rate photos so people can know which photos are working for them and which ones aren't but I never got a response. I really have no idea what the proper submission process is for new suggestions. I actually asked that as well, in my note to customer service as well but as I mentioned never heard back.
 
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Last log on would be very helpful to know and I really wish that I had been aware of the non-members and free weekends. Should have done my homework on this one.
 
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No thanks.


I'd rather not broadcast how often I check my page. See thread:
Why do some interesting matches take SO LONG to respond?
You don't have to like the "desperation" appearance thought process, just know that it exists
 
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ME564,531478 wrote :

No thanks.


I'd rather not broadcast how often I check my page. See thread:


Why do some interesting matches take SO LONG to respond?
You don't have to like the "desperation" appearance thought process, just know that it exists
No, I would not like people knowing every time I log in to eharmony, When someone views me I would like to know the day and time.


I also have a question. When we change the information about ourselves does it also change on the other person's information they have already gotten from you?


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ME564,531478 wrote :

No thanks.


I'd rather not broadcast how often I check my page. See thread:


Why do some interesting matches take SO LONG to respond?
You don't have to like the "desperation" appearance thought process, just know that it exists
I actually think that this is a very good idea. It's a good way to distinguish between the subscribers and the non-subscribers.


I just went into the help section of eHarmony and one of the frequently asked questions was "How do I know if this person is a subscriber?" The answer was a little bit fuzzy - "if they reply to your questions that means they're a subscriber." A lot of people are subscribers but they never bother answering your questions.


I would also like to know if these people are in eharmony regularly or if they're just wasting everyone's time.
 
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kittycatz15, wrote :

How come eHarmony does not post a member's most current log-in time? It would help me know if I'm being ignored or if he has just been too busy to sign in to his account. How do other people feel about this? How do I suggest this to eHarmony?
I actually do NOT like that feature. People do make inferences with that kind of info. Another site actually tells when you are on your computer no less when you are on the site. Some people have their computers on a lot for various reasons & often outsiders willinput their own reasons as to why.
 
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I consider it to be a monumentally interesting experiment in social sciences to have comprehensive data on the true behavior of individuals in the dating marketplace, and then to assess if the transparency alters their behavior and effects their results.


To see if they are lying when the say that they’re not interested in money / weight / height, when you can see from their history that they clearly have a pattern of looking at certain profiles.


Are women who initiate communication more or less successful?


People with something to hide are the ones to fear it … and why on earth would I want someone with something to hide?
 
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I do think that if you change even one word in your profile or update with a new photo, then it shows in all your matches info in their home of"so and so updated their profile on such date"....


Long story..and in another post..but I hadn't been on for medical reasons and thought I turned off matching but it didn't...and now back on after 5 months (re-joined EH as in paid member)...and tweaked a few things and added more photos so matches that hadn't closed me during this time...see that I am now updated and some have chosen to start communication....so that is one way to "refresh" some matches as well as the "find new matches"...


I know that isn't exactly what you were talking about...but another thought to those like me that hadn't been on in awhile.....
 
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