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I need a break from eharmony. I am getting tired of checking day after day and no matches. I know someone is out their that will love me but now is not the right time to meet him.


So i turned my matching off for awhile. A free weekend comes up every once in awhile then i mightturn it back on if not sooner after my break.
- January 8th, 2009, 10:00 am
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I'm on break too. Not just from eHarmony, but from dating period. I think it's good to take some time to just focus on yourself, relax, refresh, put things back in perspective. I hope it all works out for you.
- January 8th, 2009, 10:14 am
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angel, wrote :

I need a break from eharmony. I am getting tired of checking day after day and no matches. I know someone is out their that will love me but now is not the right time to meet him.


So i turned my matching off for awhile. A free weekend comes up every once in awhile then i mightturn it back on if not sooner after my break.
you may need a break, but just like working out, once you stop, it's tough to get back to the gym....


I took 9 months off from eHarmony. It can be like a chore. But like chores, like taking out the trash, you need to look for your matches every week.


- January 8th, 2009, 11:25 pm
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Wow... the more I hear the more depressed I'm getting...

I just joined a week ago. I've had 3 or 4 responses during the FREE WEEKEND, but nothing since. I've sent communication to over 60 matches since and haven't received the first response. Now I'm thinking that possibly they're all 'offline' til the next 'free' weekend. I wish I knew that $60 bucks ago!
- January 9th, 2009, 04:41 pm
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Chap4u wrote :

Wow... the more I hear the more depressed I'm getting... I just joined a week ago. I've had 3 or 4 responses during the FREE WEEKEND, but nothing since. I've sent communication to over 60 matches since and haven't received the first response. Now I'm thinking that possibly they're all 'offline' til the next 'free' weekend. I wish I knew that $60 bucks ago!
Chap4U... I've been a member since 2003. On and off ....


Takes dedication. A lot of patience...I do hope it is eventually worth it...


But I am also not pinning the happiness and quality of my life on this site, and I recommend no one else does either.
- January 9th, 2009, 05:36 pm
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I decided to come off my break. But I am going to try something new this year. After today when I changed my setting to find matches after my break and no matches still. Let eharmony find mea new match. See I guess I was checking to much and getting to disappointed when their was no matches.I need to have patience here. LetGod take over again if he is here he will show up. If not I am still looking my church and hoping for someone to notice me their. The guy who gets me is going to be special because hefound the girl he wants to be with for the rest of our livesand will love me always.


- January 12th, 2009, 09:21 pm
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