corky44 is offline corky44 Post #11  May 27,2008, 9:47am
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Actually, I can see several reasons to set your settings to anonymous. At one point I was getting 10-20 matches per day and had over 100 matches (as well as tons of closed). It's impossible to remember who's viewed you or who someone is who has updated their profile. The small photo does not always load on my computer when I scroll over people's names so I am often forced to click on the name and view the profile to find out who it is. Because e-Harmony's "who viewed me" does not indicate why (e.g., clicked on profile from my matches, updated profile link, etc), viewing someone's profile can send the message that you're more interested than they think. I've also seen other posts where folks said they would close people if they were viewed by them and not communicated with in a short period. This means you could be closed out for trying to sort out matches.
 
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smiles416 is offline smiles416 Post #12  May 28,2008, 10:16am
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Hi Friends! 10-20 matches a day! I've rec'd 8 since September and am amazed that that is all, I've played with my settings to broaden the match potential, I've reviewed my profile, and find it really odd. I chalk it up to New England living...anyway I too had an anonymousview and am puzzled as to how it comes through like that. I'm a bit discouraged yet maintain my optimism with this site, very few matches, and of the ones I rec'd they really didn't blend with my profile. Maybe I should start a thread on this.
 
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TravelingMel is offline TravelingMel Post #13  May 28,2008, 11:55am
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It was me but you closed out my profille. :-) Now, I am anonymous.
 
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smiles416 is offline smiles416 Post #14  May 28,2008, 5:52pm
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How can or could you view a profile on the eH site without the site setting up the match initially?, not that I would peek or anything!
 
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