Luna1 is offline Luna1 Post #1  April 2,2010, 8:00pm
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I met the one God has for me through eH.
A "Brown Bug" and eH brought us together.

Read our amazing story here:
Our Bug Story

(45 minute read, but very worth it. God is in the details!)

Pictures from our first real meeting and engagement pics too!
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Mark & Debora,
Thanks for sharing your story! It was quite inspirational. I am fairly new to eharmony, but so far nothing has panned out after 300 matches I've closed. Your story gives me hope that maybe there is a bigger, better plan afterall. Sometimes I wonder if God even has it in the cards for me, but...who knows. There is one guy who I swear I had a similar experience with a little while back where you just got a feeling from his profile. We communicated back/forth for a while and all his answers are emails were so sweet and genuine it seemed. I could just tell this was a really nice guy with no "agenda" or games. Anyway, about a month ago, he said he felt his life was too busy at the moment to have the time to give a relationship that he felt it deserved. He asked if we could be friends for now and then maybe when things became more normal, we could see about pursuing more. So, he gave me his personal email address. I'm not sure what to make of this, but disappointed nonetheless. I really felt something with this guy, which I know sounds nuts since we never even met. Anyway...thanks again for your story!
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I'm really sorry to hear that. But you know, it happens to the best of us. That wonderful story I had blogged was a wonderful supernatural thing. I am however, single again. The engagement is off. I'm not making excuses... God does have his reasons for bringing me and this guy together, but I had to admit that it wasn't God's best for me.

I saw many things from the very beginning that weren't good. I continued with the relationship because I didn't want to be acting out of 'pickiness' and 'unflexibility'. Relationships are work.

Well after 12 months I sat down and did inventory only to discover, to my disappointment, that what appeared to be true with him at the beginning— never really was. I was left with a load of reasons why it wasn't God's best for me. It was dysfunctional to say the least.

So you're not alone. Live your life with fullness and be happy no matter the circumstance. ;-)
 
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Tried to read it, not there anymore.
 
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