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On the whole, I’ve found eH to be way over-hyped.
It’s a nice concept to think that there could be some way of scientifically finding someone with whom you share deep compatibility, but quite obviously eH just isn’t that sophisticated. What is even the point of having MHCS when surely they should included as part of the matching process. In the matches I’ve had so far, it has become evident that anyone who has been using eH for a while has become very cynical and nolonger places any value on the matching process. The vast majority of my “Highly Compatible Matches” don’t even bother responding.
So, to the point of my question:
I’ve come to the conclusion that internet dating is about kissing a lot of frogs, in the hope of finding a princess, and just maybe what eH can do is weed out the absolute toads, so I don’t have to bother kissing them.
So far I’ve had 165 matches, of which maybe a dozen have shown any compatibility. 3 have progressed to open communication, and none of those have worked out. At this rate I’m going to need a thousand matches just to crack a date.
So what I’m seriously starting to question is whether eH actually has the Australian membership to make this work? As I’ve mentioned elsewhere, most of my matches are coming from o/s and aren’t going anywhere.
- September 5th, 2009, 06:38 am
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One of my clients has a friend who has met on Eharmony , she says they get on great. They are like the same person but the male/female versions of each other. I think if people included more information about themselves it would help. So many guys answer less than 1/2 of the 13 questions, which does not impress me. It does not show an openness and it shows a lack of effort.
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- October 4th, 2009, 01:11 am
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Oops... responded... then noticed the Australia bit. Good luck and hope your profile reflects the real you to engage women to want to talk to you... in an honest way, of course.

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- October 4th, 2009, 01:40 pm
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