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In order to ease the anxiety of the plus sized women who are not successful so far on eharmony, it would be good to see posts of the success stories of couples with plus sized women.


Please post links to existing success stories with photos or provide the success stories in response to this topic.
- January 18th, 2009, 10:48 pm
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Try looking at some of eharmonys posted stories...from the pictures you can see that some of the ladies are plus sized and very happy.


Many people never look at the success story forum and two days isn't long for a response. I don't think it is fair to say any person is wasting their money...it's a chance to meet someone. There is no guarantee to dating. People of all sizes have varying degrees of success. You just got to have hope that the right person will come along and you will recognize them.
- January 24th, 2009, 05:19 am
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shygrrl, wrote :

In order to ease the anxiety of the plus sized women who are not successful so far on eharmony, it would be good to see posts of the success stories of couples with plus sized women.


Please post links to existing success stories with photos or provide the success stories in response to this topic.
Hi shygrrl,


Along with your request, I certainly hope that successful, plus-sized members share their stories on this thread. However, my contribution to this thread is a link to the section of our Singles Success Stories site where you can view quite a number of wedding videos of plus-sized members.


http://www.eharmony.com/success/videos


I hope these videos will be an inspiration to all and confirm that eHarmony is a wonderful option for anyone searching for the love of their life.


All the best.


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- January 24th, 2009, 11:20 am
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Renee, one or two of the finalists of last week's contest are plus size. Would you post the links to their stories here please?


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- January 28th, 2009, 04:07 pm
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Dear Everyone,


Coca-cola, great suggestion! Shame on me for not thinkingto including these Most Inspirational eHarmony Couple of 2008! finalists in my first post. But better late than never; right?


Amber and Michael: http://advice.eharmony.com/?page=articles/view&AID=2235


Susan and Joseph: http://advice.eharmony.com/?page=articles/view&AID=2262

Laura and John: http://advice.eharmony.com/?page=articles/view&AID=2195


All the best.


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- January 28th, 2009, 06:49 pm
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Hey, it's not my success story, but a friend of mine found her husband on eHarmony. They are both plus sized people
- February 13th, 2009, 04:05 pm
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What are you defining as "plus-size"? Someone who has to buy clothing in the "Women's" section rather than the "Misses"? (like sizes 18W and over?) Or someone who's just overweight?





I'm a Misses size 16 and met my current guy on EH. It's possible.
- February 14th, 2009, 09:19 am
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Thanks so much, Kate227 and Spider, for posting to this thread.


Kate227, if your friends haven't already contacted our Success Stories team, I hope you will encourage them to do so. Even if they don't want to post their story on our Success Stories page, we learn so much from our successful members and their experiences help us enhance other members' eHarmony experiences so that they can be similarly successful.


And a big CONGRATULATIONS to you Spider and your special guy!!! Our Success Stories team would love to keep in contact with you as your relationship progresses; so, if you haven't already done so, I also encourage you to contact our Success Stories team by accessing the following link.


http://www.eharmony.com/singles/servlet/about/tellus


I hope that the posts and links sharedon this threadinspiremembers and confirm for them that eHarmony truly is a great place for anyone searching for that special someone.


Happy Valentine's Day to All!!!


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- February 14th, 2009, 11:33 am
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Thanks everyone who posted. This sure gives me new hope. I was positive that the reason I have not found someonewas because of my weight. Now, I am not so sure. I had written to EH and told them that I was wasting my time and money, because none of the guys they matched me with liked me because I was fat. BUT!!! I need to rethink this LOL. Maybe I will give EH another shot the next time they have a special price.
- February 18th, 2009, 11:42 am
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How awesome, ihavefaith, that you have been inspired by this thread and that you are considering giving eHarmony another try. So that you have the best chance of having a successful eHarmony experience when you return, I want to remind you that our Customer Care team is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to provide you with support and account assistance. Even before you purchase your next subscription, upon request, a Customer Care agent will be happy to review your profile to ensure that it is representing you in the best light possible.


Also, I encourage you to continue to read the testimonials of our Successful members and use them as an example in how you conduct your search on eHarmony. Along with the inspiration and suggestion you can get from them, I also encourage you to view our 5 Keys to Success video in which Dr. Warren and successful couples provide tips to help you be similarly successful.


www.eHarmony.com/keystosuccess


Lastly, please keep in mind that finding the love of your life, even on eHarmony takes time. On average, successful members dedicate 3 to 6 months to their search before they begin communicating with their special someone.


I hope that you will return to our Singles service soon, and I wish you the best in your search.


Sincerely,


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- February 18th, 2009, 01:24 pm
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