It warms my heart to know that there are more women out there that are happy inlove and in marriage. My husband doesn't do everything likeJeannie's husband does... we have a deal: he cooks, I clean - but sometimes when I am really tired he does the dishes for me after he has fed us both. When he is really tired I do the cooking and te dishes too. Now that is Love! we share responsabilities and know to step up when the other needs a break, that way neither one of us feel used or like a servent.
This is an example of each of you giving 100%... 50/50 is garbage, because then everyone is saying "well, I did MY part". If you both give 100% and one slips the other is there to pick up the slack.
That being said, it reminded me of an interesting experiment they did with one of those dating shows. They told each potential partner the other partner had a damaged eye and that it didn't follow the other one very well, but it wasn't a big deal. Both partners spent much of the date looking for the "lazy eye" and this forced more eye contact.
The number of second dates that resulted from this trick was amazing. The increased eye contact created an artificial intimacy that affected both of them and made them more interested in each other. I can't remember the exact numbers but it was well over a 50% increase in second dates.
Well I am glad they pointed out a player can do this too but not consistently. I met a wonderful guy for 3 dates. His touch is great, he kisses divinely, but he doesn't have a clue what I have said, has'nt asked me a thing about my life, and has never phoned me, emails me for dates. So is he a player, or shy? I am thinking, player. We'll see.
Now I know why my ex girlfriend was so into me. I was doing all of these things with her when we were dating in the late 70's. I baked her a cake for her birthday. I brought her flowers on no special occasion. I would call her up and we would chat for 5-6 hours. We spent time together not just dating. I would comb her long hair until it was silky smooth and satiny looking . We shopped together. Touching was a common thing with us whether it was touch of the hand, ahug or a kiss.
I did have trouble with the eye contact though. I sure is hard to make eye when a girl has 3 eyes.
i have a problem with saying i love you to anybody i was not rased that way'my moms and pops never did it and now i leel streange , but that dont meen i dont love a special women or does it?
I have a question... my boyfriend of 2 years doesn't really seem into me all the time.. He hasnt told me that he loves me either but neither have I .. We both have been extremely hurt in the past. so we are being very careful.. We live together and have an awesome time all the time.. Just some times it seems like I'm be annoying to him.. thanks for you input!
Welllll...sometimes people start as best friends and eventually, maybe explore something more...???
i have the same problem with a guy friend of mine..we spent sometimes 8 hours straight together,but he gets cold feet when i ask him to come upstairs.i gave up figuring him out.we should be spending more time with other girl friends.it doesn't really help if you go out on a friday night with your male friend who is not gay).how are you supposed to find somebody if you spend your whole free time with a single guy who does not want to take it to the next level.my advice :don't waste your time.if a guy is into you he will make a move.
When I was reading through the "10 signs" and comparing them to my "cutie". I noticed that my boyfriend does more and more on them. In the beginning, he didn't really do a lot of the list but as we dated he seems to be more on track. I think though a guy is really into you when you can make all thethose "relationship killers" and he still sticks around. He's ok that I look at bridal magazines in the grocery lane, he likes it that I tell him I love him all the time, will give uphis sports game to go outwith meand he doesn't shy away when I kiss him in public. I just think when its the rightguy doesn't matter what you do he'll just stick around.
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