The Relationship Killers: 8 Things you Should Never Say

The Relationship Killers: 8 Things you Should Never Say

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Musclecardiva is offline Musclecardiva Post #581  March 30,2010, 10:52pm
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Here is one simple word used time and time again that drives a Stake into the very Life line of your Relationship. This verbal poision is a common frequently used word that even the most non offensive person would possibly subconticisously use and not notice it's category 7 damages.
Well Here it is > WHATEVER
Yep this word can completely suck out all validity and senseitivity to any subject or response to your partner in almost in any situation.
 
 
 
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cruizin4luv is offline cruizin4luv Post #582  April 9,2010, 8:10am
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Watch out for a woman  who says and believes  " ALL  MEN CHEAT". She will use that line whenever wants to be suspicious. 
 
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katmando51 is offline katmando51 Post #583  April 13,2010, 11:54am
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This is SO true, thank you for saying it out loud.
 
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mrflyer is offline mrflyer Post #584  April 13,2010, 12:07pm
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vonyb wrote :
The one comment that bugs me is when I ask, "Where would you like to go eat (visit, dance, etc.)?"; or "What do you want to do?", then be told,"I don't care. You choose." Then find out later, or in the middle of what we are doing, that this is NOT what the other person wanted.

"What we have here is a lack of communication."
Agreed. Someone who doesn't speak up when asked shouldn't complain about the place that was chosen, unless it's something way out of line (like if a man took a date to a strip club without her knowing where they were going).

It usually works best to have a place in mind, then say "How about going to X?" rather than "Where do you want to go?"
 
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After 4 months of dating, I told my eHarmony girlfriend that I didn't trust her anymore. That turned out to be a relationship killer.
 
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Afghanistan_Veteran wrote :
After 4 months of dating, I told my eHarmony girlfriend that I didn't trust her anymore. That turned out to be a relationship killer.
LMAO!!
 
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Words I can't stand at the end of my questions: whatever, fine, ok, I don't care, forget it, it doesn't matter, so what, fu.
 
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tiff_tiff is offline tiff_tiff Post #588  April 28,2010, 10:33am
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To: Afghanistan_veteran, hopefully you've learned to NEVER do that again.  Telling someone you don't trust them screams "I'll never be comfortable with you and I want out".  My boyfriend tells me that, says he's sorry, and never leaves, but I've decided he's going to make the out call-not me because I want him to live with that decision.  Those words are definite relationship killers.  If you feel that way you should also remove yourself from the relationship too.
 
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An absolute relationship killer is when you share your feelings with her and her response is, "Whatever."  That will close the door.
 
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My comment on why he never tells you that he love's you. Be thankfull that he is still with you.. and maybe he is to shy to say that. Or the facts is that the way that he express'es his love for you is through his action's  other than words..Remember the old saying is that "ACTION SPRAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS". And seems that his "Action does speak louder than what you would like to hear him say! Be young ..Be Foolish... But be Happy!
 
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