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angelofmerci is offline angelofmerci Post #31  January 13,2009, 5:03am
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I agree that you need to see a counselor to help you deal withthis situation. If you don't get help then you could end up with "trust" issues in all of your future relationships. Good luck.
 
 
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typingmonkey,187082 wrote :

I've come back to this post three times. I didn't know what to say.


All of it is painful to consider. She'll try to manipulate you into thinking that soemhow all of this is your fault, which is standard operating procedure with cheats. No matter what she says, know that you did not deserve this. No one deserves to be treated like that.


The most important concern right now, I think, is that you should fight for custody of your son. Make this your priority. She is clearly not a stable person. Very important - maintain your calm when dealing with her. Get a lawyer, a good one.


Just remember, "The marriage" didn't fail - she destroyed it. It was her decision, and she'll have to deal with the consequences.

I agree 1000% - Fight for custody of your son or better yet don't leave him with her. Don't pay a dime in child support because the daughter is not yours, go to counseling on your own to deal with her actions. I know it is tough to deal with but you don't deserve what she did to you.
 
 
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Note that the OP made this post 6 months ago and hasn't posted on these boards since then. So, it's unlikely that he will see the newly posted responses (he might; it's just pretty unlikely ).


Personally, I find that it's always a good idea to look at the date of the original post before spending a lot of time thinking through a response...
 
 
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neardc wrote :
Personally, I find that it's always a good idea to look at the date of the original post before spending a lot of time thinking through a response...
I agree.
 
 
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You think the OP has found peace after almost 4 years since the day he made the post?
 
 
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Closing this thread as it is just a touch old.
 
 
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