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Yes I do have a lot going for me at my age. That is one reason why I don't understand why he doesn't want to share that. He has dragged me down some. This situation just sucks because I have very strong feelings for him, I care and love him.
You keep saying things that ooze of "what am I doing wrong? Why doesn't he want to be with me?" This is completely the wrong way to look at this situation. You aren't doing anything wrong. The right guy for you will love these things about you. Thus, the only logical conclusion is that this is not the right guy for you.

I know that you think you can't help how you feel, but I would venture to guess from much life experience that your feelings for this guy have much more to do with how you feel about yourself (and how if you could just fix yourself or him things would be perfect), than how you feel about this guy. You are in love with your idealized view of what your relationship could be.
 
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Word like "but I love him" or "because I love him" - common words I've heard over the years when someone is explaining why they are staying with someone who is bad for them.
 
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