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Well, first of all I am sorry for all that you are going through right now.
Second, he should have told you his std status up front.
You talk as if you may still want to save the relationship. It might be best to deal with the present situation without him. You are likely wanting it to work out because you now think you are ruined for other people. Don't let yourself fall for that fear.
As a medical person, you will be able to find good resources to help you educate yourself on this new status you have. You will also notice more and more that so many people have this and don't talk about it or even know they have it.
It will also be good to allow for a mourning period, as your view of yourself and all that you have gone through will need time to soak in.
The Westover Heights Clinic in Seattle has a great educational resource on their website for the std stuff.
Good luck to you and take care of yourself FIRST.
 
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