Dating while still wounded from ex


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nick222 is offline nick222 Post #11  January 26,2012, 10:26pm
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I initially read this as "Dating while still wounded from an ax." That would potentially be much worse.
 
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KikiAZ wrote :
THAT is completely true if you don't work on yourself. You (general you ) are the constant. If someone takes the time, through therapy or yoga or introspection (or whatever), and works on their own abandonment issues, anger issues, daddy issues THEN they can approach a new relationship whole. That of course doesn't mean the new relationship WORKS but it wasn't a rebound.

I am a FIRM believer that you will only attract/keep relationships where you are at the same level of emotional health/wholeness.
The healthier you are the healthier you can attract and keep.

No one decent is going to stay with someone who is way below them...ie a healthy person with their life together will not start a relationship with someone who is addicted, indicted, broke, pathetic, cronically a PITA.
It was not until I took a year off from dating before I realized this. Previously, it was just a string of nonstarters. Now I am much more settled and feel more aware of those red flags -- I truly feel that I can avoid the "addicted, indicted, broke" etc.
 
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