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D_Lion is online now D_Lion Post #11  October 3,2011, 2:54pm
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Anything involving Miss Googly Eyes I would ignore.

Every workplace I have been in has women like this. It doesn't mean I would consider them (indeed, the fact they are like this means I would not.)

That he said you don't know how to act around his friends is a major problem.

This is a sign of a radical disparity. Implicitly, it means he is stating that you can not sense and adapt to a new situation; that's a challange, and it needs to be confronted. Unfortunately, I think this relationship will fail (whether for your actual inability to manage or his inability to communicate actually doesn't matter.)
 
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@ Ingytravel: You're so right! It's all about trust and I do trust him. There will be plenty of other temptation from hereon. I guess I was jealous and sadly that's a fact in almost every gal.

I remember I had to dismiss myself so that I wouldn't have to see/hear it anymore. Maybe he didn't hear me dismiss myself and took that as my "attitude" storming away. Whatever the case maybe, things are good now. So just have to enjoy what it is now and what it will be.
 
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i think its ok for people to have friends, great, wonderful, however. when it comes to man/woman friends and woman/man friends, i think you have to give some trust, but be aware of whats going on.

first of all, i dont blame you for being worried with the other girl he was talking to, when a woman flirts with another man, that mans girlfriend can always tell.
ive had bfs cheat right in front of me with a so-called friend and lie in my face, so im just saying be careful.
i dont understand the need for opposite friend relationships
like billy crystal says" a man and a woman can never be friends, the sex gets in the way"
so true.
would i be "friendly" with another man, yes.

when your bf was standing close to the other girl and he LET her touch him, that means its ok that he liked it, if he was appalled by that, he would move away and say, please do not do that, thats respect for you.
young guys like to show off at parties and see how they much female attention they can get, its one of those guys things that gives a little boost to their ego.

ive learned a lot throughout the years.just my two cents from one whos been there.
go with your gut.

good luck.
 
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jme21 is offline jme21 Post #14  October 20,2011, 3:48pm
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I've always felt a little bit of jealousy can be healthy in a relationship, because if you don't care if someone is all over your SO then what does that say about your relationship with them? I think there's two parts to this: 1) It's good to trust that your SO wouldn't welcome or follow through with the advances of someone else. 2) If you're present while this actually going on, I think it's fine to expect that the SO would respect your feelings and do something about it, especially if you're seeing what's going on and when it's obviously making you uncomfortable.

In my latest dating situation, something similar happened. We were just dating and weren't official, but at the same time, I was her date to her friends party. She would pull away from me if I made any affectionate advances or tried to touch her but later in the night she was talking to someone else and the dude had his hands all over her and she let it continue and I had to sit there and watch it, making the situation extremely uncomfortable. Instead of making a big deal out of it in front of her and her friends I just left. I felt disrespected and letting someone else touch you while in the presence of a date is crossing the line as far as I'm concerned. Interestingly enough she told me she didn't want things to continue the next day - maybe leaving that night made her mad, that's fine though, I don't want to be with someone who would disrespect me like that.
 
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