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Does reality ever conform to expectation ??


Do individuals really understand themselves -- or do most just think they do ??


Is human nature actually more "convoluted" than we typically expect ??


What is personality ?? .... and/or character ??


How complex are the psycho-social dynamics that act upon every aspect of our existence ??


How does environmental conditions "affect" our inner-worlds ??


What role does knowledge, education and global-functioning play in any relationship ??





Anyone "dare" venture a response ??





- June 25th, 2008, 11:12 am
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I think overanalyzation can give most of us a MAJOR HEADACHE!


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- June 25th, 2008, 02:38 pm
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Just because someone doesn't love you the way you wnat them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
- June 25th, 2008, 03:12 pm
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Never let someone become your priority while allowing yourself to be his or her option...
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of course reality conforms to expectations; it is just at times you are forced to either reassess your expectations, or alter your view of reality. (Your view of reality is, btw, invalid. Mine is genuine. Or, at least, that is how I see it)


what is the difference between thinking you understand yourself, and understanding yourself? you understand yourself as well as you want to.


Environmental d conditions affect things to the point that call center workers are instructed to smile (and given a mirror to make sure that they constantly do so) because their voices are thus perceived as being 'more warm and friendly"


personality is the surface; character (or lack there of) is the depth. Personality is the class clown. Character is the guy on the bridge that jumps into the river for you.


and at least half of the above is specious bloviation.
- June 25th, 2008, 03:42 pm
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