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linda111 is offline linda111 Post #1  August 11,2010, 11:51pm

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i am a chinse girl ,i want to find a western man in the us,but i found that hard,some advice?
 
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BikerBeagle is offline BikerBeagle Post #2  August 12,2010, 3:33am
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Yep, move to the U.S. and date offline.

Most guys, honestly, aren't going to give you a second glance online ...too much, 'I just need a VISA' vibe coming from getting involved with someone from another country, especially China and Russia where civil liberties aren't really at the top of the priority list for the ruling governments.

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I saw your profile and you now seem to live in China. Does any of the services that you listed market in English in China? If so, I think that English-speaking people of various nationalities living or staying in China would use these services.

Personally, I am curious if any of these services market in the Chinese language.

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Yep, move to the U.S. and date offline.
I agree with the first part if the original poster wants to meet a person currently living in the US while she's staying in China. International dating through online meetings seems unrealistic because you have few opportunities to see each other.

But I respectfully disagree with the second part. I would not label Chinese or Russian nationals living/staying in the US wanting to meet US citizens who provide a VISA for them.
Speaking for personal experiences, all of the Chinese and Russian nationals that I had personally met in school or other settings in the US were extremely highly competent students or professionals themselves who would make great careers anywhere. For some people who are planning to stay in the US, it is one of the natural choices to want to meet local people. There are also others who meet someone special first and then decide to stay there.

There are also many people who prefer dating with people from different cultures.
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linda111 is offline linda111 Post #4  August 12,2010, 5:05am

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thanks ,both of you are friendly on me ,i do love western culture and guys ,not for any other reason ,you know ,everybody loves the nice things,i know that not all the western things are nice ,but it really have more great things you ought to learn.in western ,that is my choice,this is not my error ,i think.

about dating online,that is worldwide choice,many successful expamle,i try and wait.and share with you maybe.
 
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Can_I_just_be_Jo is offline Can_I_just_be_Jo Post #5  August 12,2010, 7:06am

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linda111 wrote :
i am a chinse girl ,i want to find a western man in the us,but i found that hard,some advice?
There is a wonderful Asian man on the boards that we have westernized the heck out of. I am sure he will be along shortly. If he brags about his noodle he is actually speaking of the food product.

I think....
 
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Can_I_just_be_Jo wrote :
There is a wonderful Asian man on the boards that we have westernized the heck out of. I am sure he will be along shortly. If he brags about his noodle he is actually speaking of the food product.

I think....
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Reason: I prefer redheads.

Dangit.
 
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Mokkesofie wrote :
Dangit.
I meant...I prefer Europeans!
 
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I meant...I prefer Europeans!
No, he meant redheads.
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