Confused about an Exes behavior


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frontline is offline frontline Post #11  July 29,2010, 3:58pm
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stevex wrote :
An ex is an ex, do not interact with the ex because it only turns out bad. Remove them from your phone and forget the number. Do not text them when you are lonely or drunk do not talk to them if you pass them on the street or in the store. I promise you, affiliating with an ex is bad. There are rare cases when two people can remain friends, but that doesn't seem to work out for most people and is even harder if one of the parties are single and the other is dating someone.

If you want to remain friends you should still give a bit of a cooling off period and if you want to be just friends you can't talk about the past relationship.
i second this, and will add you can be friends but it normally takes both people moving on and dating other people and then trying being friends down the road, like years later.
 
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Travis85 wrote :
I think she may have been cheating that night, and that's why she wouldn't talk to me at all.

A week later in those emails I said some nasty things, "I don't care, I've met new people" "You never meant that much too me" I'm starting to think it didn't work out, and now she is bitter.

She was always the one who put a lot of effort into us, just a month before she spent a lot of money on things for my apartment saying, 'hopefully we can buy stuff for our place someday'
I think it didn't work out, and knowing that I've moved on she resents me.
You can't possibly know if she was with someone else when you called. And, if you had already split up, it isn't cheating is it?

Going over the nasty things she said is going to drive you crazy. Do some affirmative things to clear your mind of remembrances of her. Start by not calling her and not responding to any messages from her. You may even want to return the things she bought for your apartment, if they are a reminder you could live without.

What she thinks about you now is irrelevant. Water under the bridge, my friend.
 
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