CapnCrunch23 is offline CapnCrunch23 Post #11  November 11,2009, 5:47am

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huggybear0406 wrote :
Thanks for all the feed back guys!

A bit of context I didn't put it before, the city we're moving to is my home town. My parents and family still lives in the area so it's not this huge moving process to some place I don't know at all.

Still, lots of red flags huh?
doesn't change a thing with this information..

and yes still red flags, better yet bright neon lights.. *blinking*
 
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Should you dump him? Only you know the real answer to that. Watch what he is doing, ignore what he is saying. Talk is cheap. Your truth is there, if you will only listen to it.

If you do get involved with this person business wise, get your own lawyer and pay attention to the setup. Trust me on this one, more women should pay attention to this.....

Good luck, whatever you decide

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huggybear0406 wrote :
Still, lots of red flags huh?
That's like saying that I found my BF in bed with another girl and ask others, "Is that a red flag?"

You already said he wants to date other people. That is not a red flag. That is a fact that he does not think you are good enough for him.
 
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Uhg, you guys are right. I'm just being used till he can get to Austin and start dating other girls.

I'm tired of this wishy-washy, "I like you you and care about you a lot but I don't really know if it goes past that."
 
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huggybear0406 wrote :
Uhg, you guys are right. I'm just being used till he can get to Austin and start dating other girls.

I'm tired of this wishy-washy, "I like you you and care about you a lot but I don't really know if it goes past that."
This is really not wishy washy - he is telling you straight up that he does not like you and wants to date other women - how much more clear can he be for you to get this?

I know you are blinded by your own wishes, feelings and emotions, but it's time to stop and take off the blinders. Let him go so you can move on and actually find someone who does want you and does want to be with you.
 
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Can you be sure he hasn't dated others already? Two people can be together everynight but that doesn't mean that he is faithful. What I think he is doing is playing a game now of Mr. Nice Guy until you both decide to move and then his true colors will surface. I would be very careful
about this one. You can be the best of friends but it doesn't mean anything if he wants to date others. Why does he want to date others when you guys move? Think this situation out clearly with your head and not your heart. I know it's easier said than done but better to know for sure than to be hurt later. Good luck and God bless.
 
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