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confused2 is offline confused2 Post #11  November 26,2009, 9:30am
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Thanks for your advice! and believe me I'm very well aware that I didn't deserve to be treated they way he did.
 
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olrowe is offline olrowe Post #12  November 26,2009, 9:57am
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Harvey7 wrote :
You can still invite him for lunch?

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I dont think meeting for lunch is a good idea, he has clearly stated he "needs time".

I am also not sure what was meant by the question "Is he seeing someone"? Were you two "seeing" each other because you talked on the phone for 6 months?
It seemed all you had was a phone friend and you are missing talking to each other, which can be understood.
 
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Harvey7 is offline Harvey7 Post #13  November 26,2009, 12:30pm

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confused2 wrote :
Thanks for your advice! and believe me I'm very well aware that I didn't deserve to be treated they way he did.
I would give him two weeks to cool his pits. Then I would call him to say hello, tell him that you missed talking to him!
See what type of response that you receive from him?
Personally I would ask him if he is going to step up to the plate and be your fantasy man or just fade away?

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confused2 wrote :
I met this apparently wonderful guy with whom I had lenghty conversations for about 6 moths. We talked on the phone almost daily. We talked about meeting eachother. We talked pretty much about anything. He seemed to be very honest and sincere. I really thought I he was it! He was always calling me and many times more than once a day. I didn't mind that he'd call anytime; he knew that I couldn't always answer when I was at work, but I returned his call as soon as I could. One day he just stopped calling. I called him a couple of day latter and all he said was that he was under stress and needed time. I asked If he had found someone else and he said no. He never complained about anything. Our conversations "as I thought" were pretty much up front. I told him that I had nothing to hide nor be ashamed of. I have no idea what could I have done. He knew from the start that I don't go around the bushes. He seemed to be pretty much up front too. I would like to know what happened!!!!
I wonder if he is married and his wife figured out he was calling a lady friend ...
 
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Nanette is offline Nanette Post #15  November 27,2009, 1:29pm
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No one can know for sure, but if he called you at odd hours and never wanted to meet, he was probably married looking for an emotional affair.

I think if we realllly knew how many people that are on online dating sites are married we would be amazed.

I also read (more frequently than here lately) Focus on the Family message boards and daily there are new posts about adultery and emotional affairs in marriage (don't go over there if you want to get married! i'm serious!)
 
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