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i had been dating this guy.. within a month i realised that i dint want to b wid this guy.. i used to tell him very often about it. he patiently used to listen to my reasons n problems n at times used to say ok if i dont wanna have it. but since we like being together, despite having jerky fights over the same matter.. we some how stretched our not so r'ship like r'ship upto 3 months.despite evry negative answer n non cooperation frm my side.. he kept on inclining towards a commitment. i somehow didnt agree to him... n remained stubborn on my point... but once he simply vanished n dint turn up for several days (probably feeling very hurt).. n i got worked up n tried to reach him back .. n i did but he took d promise frm me that i will stay wid him always.. i agreed but may b just out of restlessness to set the things right n bring him back .but again i undid my words n just to get out of the thing ... i told him dat my parents have problems for me keeping him as my guy so therefore i cant date him... n neither do i love him. he again says ok but still d same... n once i blasted at him as i wanted to study... n it was eating up my time.. i dint want to spend much time wid him.... n he wasnt letting me have my space... so wen i blasted at him n said that i hate him for doing all this. i was in a faul mood for my time getting wastd. but nxt day i went upto him to apologise ... that was a polite word we xchanged wid each other... i was still uncomfortable.. so i again went up to him n apologised n he said he hates me n i dont exist for him anymore. since then, i havnt turnd upto him... recently he sends me a msg. that he hates me n he thanks me for making him realise dat love is sacred thing which is not meant for selfish people like me...
i sometimes feel that i have done something really wrong to him. i begin to question my conscience... m i really dat bad n mean to have thought for myself?wat shud i do?
- October 26th, 2009, 12:07 pm
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plantiflora wrote :
wat shud i do?
Grow up
- October 26th, 2009, 12:22 pm
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If this relationship is not going anywhere, listen to your heart and end it.
- October 26th, 2009, 12:27 pm
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I'd like to help; however, I couldn't understand the language. Is it in shorthand Jamaican text?
- October 26th, 2009, 12:36 pm
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I believe that your post is so poorly written that it's not worthy of a reply. Your putting us on! Act like an adult or hit the road. Rewrite it like a lady.

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- October 26th, 2009, 12:44 pm
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I thought phones only allowed for 150 characters when texting?
- October 26th, 2009, 01:05 pm
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It sounds to me like you have a lot of doubts and that things aren't going well. It sounds to me like you need to move on and hope for better things later on down the road because from what I can read things just aren't good.
- October 26th, 2009, 03:17 pm
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CaptCrunch23 wrote :
I thought phones only allowed for 150 characters when texting?
No kidding! LMAO
- October 26th, 2009, 04:33 pm
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By all means, if he was keeping you from studying, get back to it.......
- October 26th, 2009, 05:35 pm
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Is this post for real? I could barely understand it.
- October 26th, 2009, 05:55 pm
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