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Here is the important thing is you saw red flags and put the brakes on. She might have been hurt but you did see a problem.

If you didnt put the brakes on and you continued well the break up years later on would have been a lot worse for both parties.
- October 19th, 2009, 12:33 pm
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Edmondo wrote :
Here is the important thing is you saw red flags and put the brakes on. She might have been hurt but you did see a problem.

If you didnt put the brakes on and you continued well the break up years later on would have been a lot worse for both parties.
Talking about the red flags is the key.

An instant connection is great, but because things happened quickly that doesn't mean you should end them quickly. You should still work on it!
- October 19th, 2009, 03:19 pm
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Yes, red flags are not an absolute... a break could help clear your head, and who knows what might have been if you don't take the time to see.
- October 21st, 2009, 08:03 pm
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PROBLEMS WITH GETTING TOO CLOSE TOO FAST

This is from personal experience...there is a certain "euphoria" that can accompany a new relationship...someone gave me a name for this...limmerance...look it up on wikipedia...but, like a lyric in a Jason Mraz song says...leap and the net will appear...don't be afraid to "live" you life!
- October 21st, 2009, 08:13 pm
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