Do relationships need "drama"?


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When you're in a relationship, do you tend to argue with your SO or is it smooth seas for you and yours?

Do you need "drama" to make the relationship spicy or is tranquility and harmony the name of the game for you?

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Personally, I *hate* arguing, so I'm definitely mostly interested in being with someone else who doesn't enjoy pushing buttons for negative reactions...lol.
 
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I like it calm and easy. I hate drama.
 
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Hate arguing. Prefer calm conversations. I think everyone has a right to his or her opinion and I usually really want to understand why you think the way you do. All I ask is that you give me the same respect.

So, no, not interested in the drama.
 
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I never argue, in the loud or fighting way (that's already an end.)

I like to debate, or discuss subjects which can cause arguments, but I consider that a very different idea.
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trixie1868 is offline trixie1868 Post #5  October 16,2009, 4:11pm

what the bejeezus is going on round here?!

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When I'm in a couple I like to know that drama is within our range. Then I like it best if we don't do the drama. It's sooooo draining.
 
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No drama for me, please!
 
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HECK NO!
Life has too much drama.
Relationships should be that peaceful, easy feeling (Eagle's lyrics.)
 
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I don't go for the drama. I agree with D_Lion a good discussion can be stimulating but I usually will walk away from an argument. I like to use my energy for more positve feelings.
 
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No drama for me either. Prefer to use my energy on something else.
 
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california87 is offline california87 Post #10  October 17,2009, 5:51am
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no no drama! i hate how it makes me feel, all sad & depressed. it doesnt really solve anything...boo drama!
 
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