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Harvey7 wrote :
Well we know that she holds you with a good deal of esteem and also affectionately. What I don't understand is why you treat her as an inanimate object? Do you ever reach out and hold her hand or brush up against her? Did you ever think about inviting her for some one on one activity, a movie, a play, a dance, sporting activity, brunch or dinner and maybe ask her if she would like to do The Sunday Times Cross Word Puzzle with you? This would be raising the level of the relationship.

If you meet her brunch on a weekend, it might be nice if you told her how much of a the high regard that you hold for her as a friend and you also have very warm feelings for her as well, but you did not want to lose the friendship and then, ask her if it's mutual? If it's yes, then you have a girl friend and if it's a no, you still have her as a friend and it keeps you from wasting a year with wishful thinking. Take my word for it it's a win-win situation.

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I agree with Harvey7. From what I have read, you two have almost dated. If I was you, I would ask if it is mutual.
- November 4th, 2009, 11:35 am
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LKJ wrote :
Final update, in all likelihood.

I'm out. As many suspected, I was put in friend zone.

Bummer...but I'll live.

Thanks to everyone who gave me input.
Much like my first driving test....so much potential but in the end I failed anyway (still can't parallel park....hate going backwards ) I hope you find someone who is more clear in her intentions. Who want's to waste the day away picking petals off of daisies...I'd rather invest my limited time and energy on something that has the potential to grow and develop. Enjoy the rest of your semester
- November 4th, 2009, 01:16 pm
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Much like my first driving test....so much potential but in the end I failed anyway (still can't parallel park....hate going backwards ) I hope you find someone who is more clear in her intentions. Who want's to waste the day away picking petals off of daisies...I'd rather invest my limited time and energy on something that has the potential to grow and develop. Enjoy the rest of your semester
Thanks PR. Your support in this thread has been especially appreciated.

And I'm with you on not having a clue how to parallel park...heck, I think I'd have an easier time figuring out women than I would doing a simple parallel park job. Don't ask me why I'm hopelessly single but have a totally valid driver's license.
- November 4th, 2009, 05:11 pm
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