ex fiance at it again

I got nuttin...but...I will never understand what attracts women to "bad boys", and why are they usually drop dead gorgeous women ? I understand that young girls might not want to date guys that remind them of their Fathers...but still. Sooner or later the guy that buys them a mini-van might win...but it's a long wait

ok tiara, im happy u saw that this relationship was bad 5 years ago and got out. im wondering what made you two start talking again in the first place? while you were in therapy did he also go for therapy and maybe anger mang classes? i do believe people can change so if you two both put in the time and see something there you both want then thats great. however he already said he wants the friends with benifits while you want the relationship, commitment, etc.... im sure this part will sound bad but even w/ the relationship he doesnt need to call every day. yes its nice but you both need time apart. my advice is this..............try the friends thing ( i know the no sex part will suck but..) go out do stuff, hang out whatever...the point is to see if he keeps his "friend" dates with you. if he doesnt he wont keep real dates with you. if he wont agree to it at all even for say a month then he wants the sex and nothing else..sorry i know that will suck if its true but atleast you'll know. i wont tell you to give up, just step back and see if you can see things differently, ask your roommate, friends...people who see you both as to what they think. you also need to see things from his perspective. this will all take time but if the relationship is worth it whats a month or two making sure it will work the second time around when you two may end up together. keep me posted id like to know what happens