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First of all, I know gods law regarding pre marital sex, so if you are saying this girl you met while you was in church tells me that she may
have realized what she did if she was a real Christian. Maybe she does have that weakness, as we are all human, and she ran because she does not want to sin, and her excuse is a sure way to part. What kind of person is she? Has she recieved Christ in her life? That may answer your question.
- September 4th, 2009, 09:21 pm
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Just because someone goes to church doesn't make them better than the average person...and you don't know if this person has accepted Christ in her life yet. Everyone is on a different level when it comes to their spiritual beliefs and how they are negotiating them with daily life. It sounds like from your thread that she was facing a true struggle from within. Some advice about dating religious girls is don't get physically intimate too fast...some still have that image of a white dress strongly embedded in their head. Although, I have heard of people solely attending services to "hook up" so be mindful because not everyone's intention is pure. It seems the temptation is even more-so the higher you climb the piety chain.
- September 4th, 2009, 09:53 pm
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I gotta add my vote to the others who say this relationship will go nowhere. She seems conflicted in her interest in men (you vs. Mr. Internet) and her faith values (just how pre-marital she wants/should/shouldn't be. The Bible is pretty clear; we humans aren't always so clear.). Any way you slice it, I don't see this relationship moving in your direction.
- September 5th, 2009, 03:15 am
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hummersandharleys wrote :
Yea, I forgot how much fun the dating game was after a almost 4 year break from it due to a long term relationship....Seems women these days will come right out front and tell you what they are looking for and when you deliver, bamm they change the rules. Very interesting site here with a bunch of really good insight on things.
The game isn't over yet. You just pulled a go directly to jail card. But don't worry. You'll role doubles and get yourself out soon enough.
- September 5th, 2009, 07:07 am
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This relationship quickly turned into the "gonna be a great friend" status, oh well.....A great weekend to remember
- September 12th, 2009, 09:06 pm
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you're too good of a guy, move on...
- October 3rd, 2009, 04:01 pm
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