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you are right,, i would not subject anybody just for experience,,, that is not polite neither respectable, i was trying to say, i am more open minded, less picky?, to choose a guy i am willing to date, but i have to be interested in that particular person, as a bottom line of course....sorry if i offended anyone out there,,,
I don't see why going on a date with someone with innocent intentions is a bad thing. Two people that are having a mutually enjoyable time: a dinner, a movie, checking out a local blues band...how is that disrespectful or taking advantage of them? The majority of dates people go on result in no relationship or commitment-let alone marriage or life-long partnership. Given that reality, what you're left with is an experience that both people (hopefully) enjoy.
 
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i am trying to figure out what all this all about?,,, i haven't even got A SINGLE DATE YET!!
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boccabum wrote :
Have you asked anyone out?
What about in the real world?
You have the right attitude; by testing the waters at first.
just for the clarification,,,are you implying i live in FAKE WORLD?
 
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cottoncandy00 wrote :
just for the clarification,,,are you implying i live in FAKE WORLD?
No silly!! Real world as opposed to the Internet.
 
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No silly!! Real world as opposed to the Internet.
i had few occasions i guess guys were trying to ask me out, but i was not ready nor i had time to date, until recently i decided put me out in the social realm again...now i am ready to " mingle "
 
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A snippet from one of Evan Marc Katz's emails.....

3) Broaden Your Search
If you've been reading me for awhile, you know that I got married last year. I never would have met my wife online. She's older than I am, she lived in a geographically undesirable part of town, we're different religions, different political parties. Yet we're going to spend the rest of our lives together.

Instead of closing off to people who might not meet your wish list - open up. You may be passing up your true love.

4) Put Forth Consistent Effort
You don't make money by NOT going to work. You don't lose weight by NOT going to the gym. You don't get healthy by NOT eating right. Wherever did this ridiculous idea that you find love when you're NOT looking for it come from? So get online for 20 minutes a day, do a reverse match, add to your favorites list, write to one or two people, respond to one or two people who wrote to you, and call it a day.
 
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He has some excellent articles and a good blog too.
 
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cottoncandy00 wrote :
,,,,,,,,nope , i never asked guy out, that something i just never have done, but i guess i need to start donging so, if i want SOME ACTION!!! hahaha
Good for you - equality of the sexes includes equality of effort. Some of the most enriching relationships I've had with women are ones that they asked me out first.
 
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